Shalandra Hollins, PhD, LMFT
Hello! I'm Dr. Shalandra Hollins. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Board Certified TeleMental Health Provider, counselor educator, writer, and founder of Serene Life Counseling & Wellness.
I created this practice with one hope in mind: that people would have a place where they could finally exhale. Too many of us have spent years surviving, carrying responsibilities, navigating loss, managing relationships, meeting expectations, and showing up for everyone else while neglecting ourselves. I believe healing begins when we no longer have to perform strength and instead find spaces where we feel safe enough to simply be.
While I work with clients from many backgrounds, I am especially passionate about supporting Black women and BIPOC individuals who are navigating chronic stress, burnout, perfectionism, attachment wounds, trauma, difficult life transitions, and the emotional weight that often accompanies living in survival mode. My goal is to help clients move beyond simply coping and toward lives that feel more grounded, connected, intentional, and fulfilling.
I also enjoy working with young adults, couples, and families as they navigate dating, relationships, marriage, separation, divorce, co-parenting, blended families, and the many transitions that shape our lives.
My therapeutic approach is relational, attachment-based, and culturally responsive. I integrate evidence-based practices including Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT), and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). I honor each client's unique story, cultural identity, and lived experiences. I believe therapy should be collaborative, compassionate, and tailored to the person sitting in front of me, not a one-size-fits-all approach to healing.
Beyond the therapy room, I am deeply committed to advancing conversations around minority mental health, counselor well-being, racial trauma, burnout, and sustainable healing through research, teaching, speaking, writing, and community engagement. My work is rooted in the belief that healing is both deeply personal and profoundly relational.
Outside of my professional work, I enjoy reading, writing, exploring new cities, discovering local coffee shops, creating beautiful and restorative spaces, or planning meaningful experiences that invite people to slow down and reconnect with themselves. I believe healing doesn't only happen in therapy, it also unfolds through moments of beauty, rest, curiosity, connection, and intentional living.
Whether we are working together in therapy, learning in a classroom, or connecting through my writing, my hope is that you will leave feeling a little lighter, a little more understood, and reminded that you don't have to carry everything alone.
Meet Dr. Shalandra Hollins
Who I Work With
Black women navigating burnout, perfectionism, and life transitions
BIPOC individuals seeking culturally affirming therapy
Young adults discovering who they are and where they're headed
Couples strengthening connection, communication, and intimacy
Families navigating conflict, parenting, co-parenting, divorce, and blended family dynamics
Professionals experiencing chronic stress and emotional exhaustion
Specialty Areas of Focus
Attachment wounds
Anxiety and chronic stress
Burnout and nervous system regulation
Trauma and PTSD
Racial trauma and racial fatigue
Perfectionism
Women's mental health
Relationship challenges
Couples therapy
Family conflict
Life transitions
Self-esteem and identity development
Boundaries and people-pleasing
Education & Credentials
Ph.D. Counselor Education & Supervision (CACREP-Accredited), Capella University
M.S. Marriage & Family Therapy, Capella University
B.A. Sociology, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT #2179)
Board Certified TeleMental Health Provider (BC-TMH #3261)
AAMFT Supervisor Candidate
Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator
Professional Affiliations
American Counseling Association
Association for Counselor Education and Supervision
Southern Association for Counselor Education and Supervision
Chi Sigma Iota Counseling Honor Society
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), Clinical Fellow
Dr. Hollins is an AAMFT Clinical Fellow. This distinction is granted to AAMFT Professional Members who have met the highest level of Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) licensure in the United States. AAMFT Clinical Fellows have met AAMFT standards for education in MFT systemic family therapy as well as rigorous standards of training in marriage and family therapy.
“I believe healing is not simply the absence of pain.
It's learning to breathe deeply again, to build relationships that feel safe, and to create a life that reflects who you are, not just what you've survived.” -Dr. Hollins